tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-61305455750361265302023-11-15T10:33:14.434-08:00Letting go of yesturdayAnonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09922705928943143742noreply@blogger.comBlogger15125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6130545575036126530.post-39086382817488641692014-09-17T21:29:00.001-07:002014-09-17T21:29:52.550-07:00Sex ED6 is how old I was when I started learning how to pleasure a man. "When we have visitors, if it's a man, you should sit on his lap and wiggle around...if you feel his thing getting hard you know you're doing it right." Me: "But I don't want to sit on a strangers lap." Teacher: "You'll do it because you're a woman and you want to make men happy." Me: "Why?" Teacher: "You want to make your parents proud don't you? Make Jesus happy with you?" "Men will give a lot of money to a girl that makes them happy. Then you can share it with your family." Whatever...I wasn't buying it...but I didn't want mom and dad to be angry with me so I went along. I tried my best to dance sexy, like they showed me, taking my clothes off slowly. None of it made much sense to me except I found it all very unappealing and boring as hell. <div>
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I liked playing outside, climbing trees, learning. Mom gave me a high school equivalency test when I was 7 and I passed. Reading was my passion but it was hard to get my hands on anything interesting. They only wanted me to read the bible (which I'd already read 3 times from cover to cover) or I could read David Bergs "letters" which all sounded the same. I wanted to ride my bike, run and hike then settle down at the end of a long day and lose myself in a book...a real one like Treasure Island. Instead they wanted me to sit on a mans lap and wiggle. Dumb.</div>
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David Berg wrote a lot about the end of the world, he predicted it was going to happen 10 years from today..."Oh cool" I thought...I'll only be 17! I mean, who wants to be old in heaven! But I've got to stop reading, I hear my mom calling me inside, it's time for another lesson. I wish I didn't have to go. </div>
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09922705928943143742noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6130545575036126530.post-10062533090383634362014-04-07T09:05:00.001-07:002014-04-07T09:05:49.402-07:00Portugal<br />
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Right around age 5 we, our Family Care home, moved to Portugal and into the house David Berg had been using. He and his entourage had moved up the road a ways and we used to see him once in awhile out on walks. Anyways this house was huge, it had a grand staircase, a bunch of rooms, but what I remember most is that there was an actual stage to perform on with curtains and everything. There was even a trap door in the center for making a cool entrance, doing magic tricks etc. </div>
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I remember exploring old castles, taking long walks on pebbled beaches, having a dog called "Peter Brown", and splitting my forehead open when I tripped and hit my head on a pipe. I bled so badly but couldn't cry, I sat there nodding that I was fine while blood streamed down my face. I was always the kid who acted all tough up front...like it was no big deal...and then totally freaked out or cried my eyes out later. I'm still like that to this day. </div>
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I started seeing things I hadn't noticed before children running around, dirty, looking lost, holding out hands for change. My parents gave us a small allowance back then and while my sisters immediately spent theirs....I kept every penny....saving it for a rainy day I guess. But seeing those kids all scrawny, with eyes large with hope...well they got every bit of what I had in my pocket. As much as I've tried to hold on to things in life, if I saw someone who wanted or needed it more....I gave it away. I didn't get much growing up, presents were scarce, but when I did..... like my first walkman (for example) a couple weeks later someone said "Oh that's cool, I wish I had one" and there went my walkman. Lol! As a full grown adult I actually made a new years resolution once to be more selfish. I try to put myself first once in awhile and sometimes I disgust myself by being a bit of a brat. Balance...I'm always looking for that balance between looking out for myself and letting go. </div>
Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09922705928943143742noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6130545575036126530.post-77075836296847043302014-04-05T23:36:00.001-07:002014-04-05T23:36:14.190-07:00My brother AndrewOne thing about the Children of God is that there was a lot of free love, meaning everyone was encouraged to "love each other" have sex, make babies, etc. So when my mom got pregnant for the fourth time, she wasn't quite sure who the father was. She was quite positive it wasn't my dads...meaning it was down to 2 other men who lived in our little commune we called home. Now both these men had birthdays pretty close together, not only that but baby was due right between the two dates. I remember mommy telling me (at age 4 mind you) that she had prayed about it and asked God to have the baby born close to it's fathers birth date. Even back then I was pretty sure that was abusing the power of prayer and not at all what the Almighty had in mind. But He must have had a sense of humor because my little baby brother was born 2 weeks early right on his daddy's birthday.<br />
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All 3 of us girls were thrilled to have a baby brother. We played with him endlessly until everyone started getting sick with all those childhood diseases. Luckily he didn't catch any of them and right when everyone was getting healthy again, the little guy came down with a cold. My mom took him to the doctors office for something to help him sleep better at night....the doctors were on strike so she had to wait in the waiting room for over 3 hours with alot of other sick kids. He developed pneumonia. And one morning I walked into my parents room as usual and Andrew wasn't in his crib. It was then I noticed mom and dad crying on the bed...my only baby brother had died in the night at 9 months old. That's when I decided at the wise age of 4 not to have kids...so I'd never be sad when they died or left me.<br />
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Ireland is very Catholic and no matter how my parents begged and pleaded...they could not find a single cemetery that would allow them to bury a non-catholic baby. One priest suggested the back yard...that's when I learned the words "Sanctimonious Jackass". Late one night they climbed a wall with a tiny little coffin and buried my brother placing a small marker above his head. RIP little brother.<br />
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With so many sisters I always wanted a brother. As I grew older I never had much use for boyfriends but all my very best friends were guys. I think I might have been trying to find that brother I lost.Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09922705928943143742noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6130545575036126530.post-86208479326604299912014-04-03T22:00:00.002-07:002014-04-03T22:00:33.450-07:00Oceanside CA Ironman 2014- my first<br />
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good job keeping up with my promise to update daily. Sometimes there are things
in life that become such a huge priority they cripple other efforts because there's just no energy left.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: #1f497d;">In my case it was heading out to
my first ever half Ironman, I didn't feel 100% ready, I hadn't lost the weight
I wanted to, I couldn't run like I needed to because of a problem with my achilles all my training ended up being on the elliptical for the run portion. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: #1f497d;">But ready or not I arrived in CA on Thursday the 27th. I walked the beach,
checked out Ironman village, picked up my packet which included swim cap and
bib number. I also got my bags, where you put your gear. For example I would be
in a wet suit for the swim and when I go to transition to the bike I would need
my helmet, bike shorts, gloves, glasses, bike shirt, socks, shoes, and
nutrition etc. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: #1f497d;">Bright and early, on March 29th
I racked my bike, laid out my stuff and my bag with my bike clothes to change
into after the swim...and I walking into the shoot and got ready to wade into
freezing cold water. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: #1f497d;">The water was 61 degrees, so
freezing I couldn't think straight, when I first got in the water. I kept
saying “Just keep swimming” in my head. I got kicked right on the bridge of my
nose…that was fun. But I kept going and was really excited to finish my swim on
time: 1 hour and 10 minutes. (I pretty much had to learn how to swim so I could
do this, so it was a huge victory for me) <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: #1f497d;">(I used a snorkel [you can use
one during an Ironman] which was wonderful being so new to distance swimming.
This can be great for a beginner like me because it helped me focus on proper
swim technique and now that it is solid I can retire the snorkel. My next 70.3
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water, I ran over to where my bike was waiting, but my bike bag was gone. The
volunteers had stuck it somewhere with the 2,500 other bags...I had about 10 of
them searching the truck for it and finally it was found. 13 minutes later
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<span style="color: #1f497d;">I felt great on the first half
of the bike ride, there were rolling hills but nothing I couldn't handle, I was
guzzling Gatorade, and munching on snacks. I had trained for the bike portion
by circling Mercer which is nice and hilly. Right before mile 30 I hit a mountain,
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mile up the second mountain, I got it back on, but couldn't get going again so
had to walk the bike to the top. I felt fine but I was going too slow.
Eventually a van pulled up and I was told by a staffer that I'd made 45 miles
or so but, while I hadn't missed the overall bike cut off, I'd missed a
landmark cut off so would I please get in. He goes on to tell me that it was
too bad because I'd only missed it by a few minutes and the next 10 miles was going
to be all down hill and level and I would easily make the overall cut off . So
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done, I had a run left in me I was just too slow. I'm looking forward to doing
much better at Lake Stevens Aug. 17th. And sometime in June I'll be waiting to
sign up for Oceanside California 2015...You didn't think I’d let that course
beat me without giving it another shot?<o:p></o:p></span></div>
Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09922705928943143742noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6130545575036126530.post-36519261402551628662014-03-14T22:16:00.001-07:002014-03-14T22:23:07.406-07:00Make my day...Do you think there's someone out there who will care so much, that once in awhile, they'll spend their time thinking of ways to make my day? <span style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 18px;">There are times in life I feel invincible and there are times I think I might shatter. I am a caretaker by nature...so I think sometimes I want to be taken care of....looked out for. I wish I had a friend who knew me well enough to come rescue me from myself every once in awhile when I need it most. Put my needs above their own plans and drag me away from my responsibilities....or maybe I just need to live closer to more friends. Lol! Right now I'm feeling very stuck...no car...no fun money...no escape. Of course this is today...tomorrow I'm sure I'll feel on top of the world once again.</span>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09922705928943143742noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6130545575036126530.post-40297071232162754812014-03-06T23:51:00.002-08:002014-03-06T23:51:39.851-08:00Jesus was born in IrelandMy parents had another daughter, Angela. If you remember in an earlier blog I talked about how we lived in a "home" dubbed "Family Care" where all the teaching books and curriculum's, to home school the children in our cult, were created. The reason we made our own was to be sure everything learned was approved by our leader David Berg. We were kept separate from all other members of the group and were also fully supported. We had to move around a lot because our leadership were paranoid that the local authorities might be looking for us. <br />
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Our home was moved to Ireland. I remember the backyard was full of thorn bushes that I loved to hide in while playing "Tag" because no one was brave enough to deal with a few scratches and come get me. I remember Ireland was so green, florescent green rolling hills, deep green forests, and one of the first things we did was explore an old fort with canons pointing out to sea. <br />
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There were also some way cool neighbor kids that told me Jesus was born in Ireland, when I called them on their outrageous lie, they swore they could prove it to me be showing me the town of Bethlehem and the stable where he was born. So off I went, I was 4 by now, tearing off into the woods with a group of boys all taking turns holding my hand and pulling me along behind them. I know, dumb kid! We finally made it to a clearing with 3 dilapidated old farm buildings where a small sign proclaimed I was indeed in "Betlam. Jesus borned here" Learn something new everyday. <br />
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These same neighbor boys helped me carefully place cow manure into a tin pan, cover it with whipped cream, and pass a nice big healthy slice of a pretty convincing looking pie (I thought) to my poor mother....who I'm sure knew what I was up to the whole time...but she looked me straight in the eye as she slowly raised the spoon full of yuck to her mouth and I broke down, confessing all. Wow did I get a monster spanking. <br />
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Ireland is where both my sisters got mumps and so did the other kids in our home, so my parents made me sleep and play with them in the sick room....but I never got sick. I don't know if you've heard of this, but it seems it's much better for a child to catch things like mumps, chicken pox, etc. then an adult. Mom tried to help this process along by making me hang out with the sick kids, but besides the whooping cough when I was a baby, I never got another childhood disease. I think its my super power!!!<br />
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09922705928943143742noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6130545575036126530.post-81678489651477351942014-02-28T19:07:00.000-08:002014-02-28T19:08:14.297-08:00Counting beans and Nazi criminalsThere are so many things things that happen in a lifetime, writing it all down would be a bit overwhelming. But there are a couple events that are totally random and worth mentioning, for example, in August of 1977 our little apartment was searched by the Italian police because Herbert Kappler, a war criminal, had apparently been smuggled out of his jail cell by his wife. He had been diagnosed with terminal cancer weighing only 105lb making it relatively easy for her to pack him up in a suitcase and carry him our to her car assisted by the helpful carabinieri (guards). (<span style="background-color: white; font-family: sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 19.1875px;">Kappler was portrayed by </span><a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Christopher_Plummer" style="background-color: white; background-image: none; color: #0b0080; font-family: sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 19.1875px; text-decoration: initial;" title="Christopher Plummer">Christopher Plummer</a><span style="background-color: white; font-family: sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 19.1875px;"> in the 1983 TV movie </span><i style="background-color: white; font-family: sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 19.1875px;"><a class="mw-redirect" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Scarlet_and_The_Black" style="background-image: none; background-position: initial initial; background-repeat: initial initial; color: #0b0080; text-decoration: initial;" title="The Scarlet and The Black">The Scarlet and The Black</a>)</i><br />
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<br />Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09922705928943143742noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6130545575036126530.post-82899178957662306032014-02-24T15:36:00.001-08:002014-02-24T15:36:11.998-08:00Afraid of the darkMy parents moved to Rome in 1975, settled in a small apartment, dad started doing his art and my mom began learning Italian. My older sister went to a daycare of sorts run by nuns, when a child got whooping cough they lined up the whole class, made everyone hug and kiss the sick child and sent them all home to their families....and that is how I caught whooping cough at 6 months and very nearly died. Apparently they believed childhood disease's eventually infect everyone so why not get it all over with at once. <br />
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going to need to swim 1.2 miles, bike 56 miles, and then run 13.1….and I am
starting to panic!!! The bad thing about having a big event like this in March
is that training should get started back in October….and it did….however
the eating right part never really happened for me. I went on vacation in
October ate and drank like it, then my birthday was in November and being
lucky enough to have good friends….I celebrated all month long, then there was
Thanksgiving, Christmas and New years where I once again drank too much and ate yummy
stuff. So all that to say….I didn't lose the weight I wanted to and am now
feeling fat and not in nearly good enough shape to rock a 70.3 mile
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09922705928943143742noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6130545575036126530.post-73391852308210857022014-02-10T16:04:00.001-08:002014-02-10T16:04:15.698-08:00Family CareThe Children of God group had gotten started in the late 1960's and David Berg had most of his followers living in big communes, and anytime you get 40/50 or more horny 20 something year olds spending that much quality time together....you're gonna end up with a lot of babies. Side note: Cults will always promote having children because it's an easy way to gain followers. <div>
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tickets and/or hopping on ships. Personally I think he just wanted to move
everyone away from their loved ones and all that is familiar so they wouldn't be
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and he puts together a group of people with various skills, he gets a X-high
school teacher (he had adopted an 11 year old girl, got a crush on her and made
her one of his wives. He also rapped his boys…but that’s coming later), an
artist (my dad), a photographer and editor (my first rapist), and others. This fabulous
group of people were instructed to create curriculum's work books that teach the
3 R’s, illustrate children’s books and readers, we even got a version of the
History of the World….as told by David Berg of course (until this day I still
get important world events screwed up because of him and his skewed view of the
world) This group of people was called “Family Care”. We were fully supported,
our location was kept secret which means we almost never saw anyone else from
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09922705928943143742noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6130545575036126530.post-21164368812488396732014-02-07T18:48:00.003-08:002014-02-07T18:53:43.190-08:00Art on a barnDavid Berg, believing he's a profit, predicts a future one world government led by the "Antichrist" who will arise and force everyone to get the mark of the beast 666. Christians will be persecuted and for a time evil will win. So my parents and their new hippy friends escape to northern MN, moving onto this farm, where their plan is to hide out and live off the land. Brilliant.<br />
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My dad, who is an amazing artist, paints a massive picture of a half naked women on the side of their barn...I suppose he should have been trying his hand at farming....but after living a very sheltered life he's quite excited by this idea of freedom, breaking away from normal traditions, women burning their bra's and letting it all hang loose, free, and natural. etc. So being an artist he's off expressing himself on the side of a barn. Funny fact, this gorgeous mural was facing a highway and quite a few cars ended up in a ditch. </div>
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In the meantime my mom is off coping with her first child (my older sister) and her worst memory of this time is dealing with an endless stream of cloth diapers which she has to wash by hand in stupid cold weather. She said they'd freeze on the clothes line and she'd take them down, stacking them like plates. </div>
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I'm not sure which of the hippies thought it'd be a great idea to raise rabbits as a protein source...because anyone who knows anything about nutrition knows that Thumper isn't the best meal plan. But there they all were, digging potatoes out of frozen ground, catching bunnies, crying over having to kill them and in the end...no on could actually do the dirty deed and they let them all go free. </div>
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Much to my parents relief, my dad's artistic talent is discovered by David Berg (I'll explain what he wants him for in another post) When I say my dad was a good artist I'm not bragging. He had entered several art competitions, won most of them, and by the time he graduated high school, had offers from, among others, New York Times (to do their political cartoons) and Walt Disney...drawing Thumper and his pal Bambi. How different my life could have been.....</div>
Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09922705928943143742noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6130545575036126530.post-6017973728938026422014-02-05T14:44:00.000-08:002014-02-05T14:54:32.018-08:00Where did I go?Over the years I've taken the worst of my memories, written them down in random notebooks, and locked them away. Since the purpose was to evict the images from my mind, I left nothing out....they are gritty, horrible, sad and very detailed. They describe the way my skin crawled, how my small body tore, and the chaos of my thoughts and feelings. This last week I have been digging up my notebooks and reading them for the first time in years and have felt very overwhelmed by it all. So I apologize for my absence. As of today I commit to a new post every 48 hours...I don't want to lose my nerve or momentum. Also, since my past no longer defines who I am, I'll be telling you about my current life and journey to become an Ironman and the ups and downs in my quest to become physically fit and healthy. Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09922705928943143742noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6130545575036126530.post-6637295724077854492014-01-25T22:58:00.003-08:002014-01-25T22:58:56.457-08:00<div class="yiv4417724892MsoNormal" id="yui_3_13_0_ym1_1_1390718817521_2099" style="margin: 0in 0in 10pt;">
<span id="yui_3_13_0_ym1_1_1390718817521_2098" style="font-family: Calibri; font-size: small;">My parents were perfectly normal teenagers with perfectly normal lives. They were high school sweethearts that met in art class, fell in love, and got married a few years later. <span> </span>It was during the hippy era, make peace not war, when a couple came to their Baptist church one day singing and talking about the Lord and their mission was to “Go into all the world and preach the gospel to every creature.”<span> </span>-Mark 16:15</span></div>
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<span id="yui_3_13_0_ym1_1_1390718817521_2103" style="font-family: Calibri; font-size: small;">These young hippies happened to be new members of a very new cult called “The Children of God” led by David Berg. He preached that the christian community would be far better served if people stayed out of churches and instead took off to the 4 corners of the earth as missionaries. My parents loved this idea, of a life spent in service to others, and joined with the idea of making the world a better place by spreading the good word. Innocent beginnings. </span></div>
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My mothers death gave me a chance at life....my own life. I promised myself that I wouldn't tell this story until I was able to tell it all. These are the memories of my life, my world, it's not pretty and it's not going to be a sweet story that makes you feel warm and fuzzy on the inside. There are moments in life that stand out like a <span id="misspell-1"><span>billboard</span></span> and you can try to scrub your memory but you won't ever come clean. There were good times that are worth remembering and I play them back to myself over and over and over. So much has happened that now at 38 I feel like an old soul. I warn you in advance that this is not a story you will want to believe. You will find yourself thinking that surly I must be <span id="misspell-1"><span>exaggerating</span></span> or adding details to make the events of my life seem more extream and sensational. I wish like hell you were right. </div>
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I was 7 the first time I was fucked by a man. He was in his 30's and he'd been messing around with my sister but by the time she was 9 he'd lost interest and had turned his atention towards me. Both my mother and my father gave their consent and helped me prepare for my "big night". I have promised myself I'd be honest and give every detail, becuase this is esencial to my healing process. If I were you....I'd exit this blog so I could go on pretending that no one actually does this kind of stuff in real life. This story will make you feel dirty and I'm sorry for that. It's my time to heal, my time to tell all and put the burden of these memories to rest.</div>
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This blog won't all be about my past, I have a life today that isn't perfect but it's rich and full of fun, true friends, and the kind of challenges that make life worth living. I hope you can stick with me.</div>
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